Christians: Why is your holy spirit so misleading?

Get a clue. The most obvious doctrine of all Scripture is the total depravity of mankind. The totally depraved do not seek God. Even Christians must seek [the Bible says "with all your heart"] God and His ways or they will not find Him or them. Divisiveness is just one aspect of that depravity. Blind ignorance is another aspect. Honestly, you cannot be as ignorant as you pretend.